Freedom inside of a relationship does not imply a lack of concern and commitment for our partner. Rather, because we are free, we are free to choose to enter and remain into a caring relationship. Caring and commitment are neither burdens nor prison when they are freely chosen. Because we are not trapped, feeling that the people on whom we depend will drift out of our grasp, we do not have to try to maintain an iron grip on others. Our relationship with someone are not as prisoners on a chain but as dancers in a most delightful dance.